26.5.12

THE ROAD NOT TAKEN


Robert Frost

Two roads diverged in a yellow wood,
And sorry I could not travel both
And be one traveler, long I stood
And looked down one as far as I could
To where it bent in the undergrowth;
Then took the other, as just as fair,
And having perhaps the better claim,
Because it was grassy and wanted wear;
Though as for that the passing there
Had worn them really about the same,
And both that morning equally lay
In leaves no step had trodden black.
Oh, I kept the first for another day!
Yet knowing how way leads on to way,
I doubted if I should ever come back.
I shall be telling this with a sigh
Somewhere ages and ages hence:
Two roads diverged in a wood, and I--
I took the one less traveled by,
And that has made all the difference.

25.5.12

20. GRADUATE. CUM LAUDE.



            There’s nothing more I could ask of God this very moment of my life.  I’m still twenty yet I already graduated from uni after 3.8 months studying – travelling – studying. haha J Not to mention, the predicate as best graduate with the not-so-cool souvenir (anyway.. thanks for you my beloved dean :D).  Really, God has been beyond good to me. :D

            I remember the time after I leave high school and was planning to study Visual Communication Design in Bandung. It was neatly planned by me. I already rent a house together with my best friend who is going to study in the same uni with me.. and at the end of the day I have to be grateful with the fact that my parents want me to study in Sam Ratulangi University (Unsrat) for some reason. Yet, after all that’s turned out, I thank God for makin His will be done.
 Tbh, I have no idea why I end up studying English literature after studying Science for 2 years in High School.  Hmm, probably, I should say “it’s fate..”. See, man can only plan but God is the One who directs our steps (Psalm).  Well, despite all my reluctance at first, I know God has divine plan for me.. and I start to see it in my first year of study. I kept it in mind how God open the way that I could be able to join my first competition in uni. It was a national level comp. which took place in Jakarta. A Maengket Dance Comp. to be precise :P . Our team won the 3rd place. In academic, I remember my first competition was 13th ALSA E-Comp UI and just right after that I started to participate in debate competition, news casting competition, essay competition, mun, and even pageant ( >3<). Sorta funny yet exciting to recall those moments in mind. How I started with a willy nilly attitude and end with ‘what more can I join’ attitude. I realized that I’m transforming as an achiever at present.
In a nutshell, I thank God for every GREAT prophecy, sermon, and words of encouragement that has been spoken over my life by His servants (regarding my study) which I sometime didn't have enuf confidence to believe (and yet which have been proven time to be true). I believe that God has prepare something BIGGER, BETTER, and way more epic than what I could pray or imagine for my future. I may not see the whole staircase but I do believe it’ll lead me to such an incredible place.
Yesss, this season of my life may seem to come to an end but mann, I’m an insatiable learner. I won’t be contented with what I’ve come to learn so far. I’ll keep on studying things (good for me,huh?).

Blessing,

- Claya

One of the greatest feelings ever. Knowing that, you’re so tired, yet it was all worth it, because your day was just completely amazing. You’re content, and satisfied with how the day treated you or I could say, how life treated you. :)

Use Me

This is one of the song that I started to sing wholeheartedly since the time I graduated from high school. Sincerely, I want to be used by God. I want Him to use all my creativity, my brain, my everything.. Not literally means that I want to be a full-timer in church, evangelist or what. I simply want all of my being will bring praise to Him (whether ppl applaud me or not).


If You can use anything Lord, You can use me(2x).

Take my hands Lord and my feet,

touch my heart Lord and speak through me.

If You can use anything Lord, You can use me.


I remember a story in the Bible days,

You used a man called Moses with a rod in his hand.

You told Moses, Take the rod in your hand,
stretch it forth and walk on dry land;
if You can use anything Lord, You can use me.


I remember a story, 

I remember it well,

You used a shepherd boy, David, 
with a sling in his hand. 
He took the rock with the sling in his hand,
he slung the rock and the giant fell dead;
if You can use anything Lord, please use me.


You can use anything that You want to use,

big or small, short or tall, 

You just call and we'll come running.
You took two fishes and five loaves of bread,
five thousand people you fed;
If You can use anything Lord, You can use me.

Songwriters: LEO, PHILLIP / LEWIS, C. J.

Blessings,

-claya :)

30.4.12

love statement

This what I believe in.. speaking abt love.
Run for God
Run for your future
If you see someone run along with you,
He got the 'potential'. :)

24.4.12

i need more sleep


Got soo busy this week..
Even busier once I knew I have to off somewhere at the beginning of next month when in the interim, I have to finish my thesis earlier since they changed the deadline of thesis defense into May 4. I couldn’t imagine how I can bear this. Bearing in mind that I also have to give lesson to Student Ambassador 2012 before they compete in the National level, as well, I need to accompany Michelle & Mario practice before competing in NUEDC in MKS. Moreover, I knew I cannot abandon my student (private English course), my Sunday School students, my C.A.R.E (teenager cell group). Overwhelming activities, huh?
If I could, I think I would propose a motion to duplicate my body into 5, 7, or ten perhaps..:P -- one to attend youth service, one to get more sleep, one to work on my thesis, one to coach SMA Lokon debate teams, and the rest I’d use for my overwhelming schedule above.. Pheeeww!!

As you could guess, I have been lacking my beauty sleeping time. Thank God I don’t have morning classes anymore, if so, I think I would probly need a pulley as in the picture above to keep my eyes open wide. J

Well, I need to back to work now.. back to work on my thesis.. (please pray for me yah! J)
And anyway, If any of you are like me -- trapped in the same cage of interminable ‘to-do-stuffs’, I’d like to share this to you:
“Whatever you do , work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for men. –Colossians 3:23”
Ssshhh..That’s my key to stay in joy while facing these ceaseless activities.. :D

*Motion for cessation of blogging raised*

19.4.12

Golf Ball

I would like to share what I came to learn just couple of weeks ago about How God use imperfect people for His glory.
All too often we put in mind that God only use perfect people. Just like a big corporation who hires only skillful people, we adopt the thought that if we’re imperfect, God won’t use us. I have to say this is an erroneous thought.
Here are some Biblical facts to proof that God also use imperfect people. Noah once drunk, but God still use him and protect His family and made them be the only people alive after the flood. Abraham was too old to have kid but God use him to show His glory that He can do what we think is impossible. David committed adultery and even set up a murder but, see, God uses him and even named him ‘the man after God’s own heart’.  Apostle Paul killed many believers, yet God still use Him to preach in many nations and even write almost half of the books in New Testament. Not to mention the story of Gideon, Elijah, Jeremiah, Peter and other disciples of Jesus, I believe that above examples could open our eyes to see that even we are imperfect, God can still use us.
Let me come to the fact that is used as an analogy. A Golf Ball. Have you ever think the reason why a golf ball has dimples instead of being perfectly round without those dimples? I personally think that if a golf ball have a perfectly round surface, it supposed to go further and quicker. The fact is: it’s not. I came to know the fact that the experts intentionally design these dimples to create wind resistance that enable a golf ball to fly even further. What can we learn from this golf ball? We can learn the fact that even we are imperfect and have many ‘dimples’, it is those dimples that causes us to gooo further in life.
I came to believe that God can use what we called ‘our weakness’ to bring Him glory. It is not that we have to ignore our weakness, instead, we have to acknowledge our weakness and imperfections, not to go around feeling beaten up, but to be thankful that when we are weak God can performs His greatest feast.
Here I come to the point that is most relaxing; the fact that we all have been equipped for the race God has design for us. Take heed of this, if God wants to create us with different look and different personality, He will. The thing is, if He created us just the way we are today, it is because He has a specific magnificent plan for us. Let’s rest in the thought that We are fearfully and wonderfully made and that God has never made mistake when He created us.
To finish, I’d like to say, Quit over analyzing yourself. Stop looking on what’s wrong with us, instead, take heed of how far we go, how far we accomplish, and how great God has been in our life. Don’t let devil intimidate you with the thought that you are not worthy in God’s sight. Lastly, Put on the breastplate of God’s approval!
God sees your availability instead of your ability.
cheerio!! :)

17.4.12

Rich Dad, Poor Dad (cont.)

Chapter 4: the History of taxes and the power of Corporations
-         Rich Dad did not see Robin Hood as a hero. He called Robin Hood a crook for robbing from the rich and give to the poor.
-         How did the rich outsmart the intellectuals? Once the “take-from-the-rich” tax was passed, cash started flowing into government coffers. Initially, people were happy. Money was handed out to government workers and the rich. It went to government workers in the form of jobs and pensions, and it went to the rich via their factories receiving government contracts. The government received a large pool of money, but the problem was the fiscal management of that money. The government ideal is to avoid having excess money. If you fail to spend your allotted funds, you risk losing it in the next budget. You would certainly not be recognized for being efficient. Business people, on the other hand, are rewarded for having excess money and are applauded for their efficiency. As the cycle of growing government spending continued, the demand for money increased, and the “tax-the-rich” idea was adjusted to include lower-income levels, down to the very people who voted it in, the poor and the middle class.
-         The financial IQ (the synergy of many skills and talents) is made up of knowledge from four broad areas of expertise:
·         Accounting : is a financial literacy or the ability to read numbers which allows you to identify the strengths  and weakness of any business. The more money you are responsible for, the more accuracy is required.
·         Investing : is the science of “money making money”.
·         Understanding Markets : is the science of supply and demand.
·         The Law : the awareness of accounting, corporate, state, and federal regulations.
-          In summary, business owners with corporations: earn, spend, pay taxes; Employees who work for corporation: earn, pay taxes, spend.
Chapter 5 : the Rich invent money
-         “Often in the real world, it’s not the smart who get ahead, but the bold.
-         “The single most powerful asset we all have is our mind. If it is trained well, it can create enormous wealth seemingly instantaneously. An untrained mind can also create extreme poverty that can crush a family for generations.”
-         Which one sounds harder to you? 1. Work hard. Pay 50% in taxes. Save what is left. Your savings then earn 5%, which is also taxed. OR 2.Take the time to develop your financial intelligence Harness the power of your brain and the asset column.
-         The problem with “secure” investments is that they are often sanitized, that is, made so safe that the gains are less.
-         “It is not gambling if you know what you’re doing. It is gambling if you’re just throwing money into a deal and praying.”
-         “Great opportunities are not seen with your eyes. They are seen with your mind.”
-         These skills are in addition to those required to become financially intelligent:
·         Find an opportunity that everyone else missed
·         Raise Money
·         Organize smart people
-         There is always risk, so learn to manage risk instead of avoiding it.

Chapter 6: Work to learn – don’t work for money
-         The main management skills needed for success are:
1.       Management of cash flow
2.       Management of system
3.       Management of people
-         “When I speak to adults who want to earn more money, I always recommend the same thing. I suggest taking a long view of their life. Instead of simply working for the money and security, which I admit are important, I suggest they take a second job that will teach them a second skill. Often I recommend joining a network-marketing company, also called MLM, if they want to learn sales skills. Some of these companies have excellent training programs that help people get over their fear of failure and rejection, which are the main reasons people are unsuccessful. Education is more valuable than money, in the long run.”
-         “The world is filled with talented poor people. All too often, they’re poor or struggle financially or earn less than they are capable of, not because of what they know, but because of what they do not know. They focus on perfecting their skills at building a better hamburger rather than the skills of selling and delivering the hamburger. Maybe McDonald’s doesn’t make the best hamburger, but they are the best at selling and delivering a basic average burger.”

Poor yet educated Dad
Rich Dad
-   Work harder and harder, become more competent, salary went up but like a professional athlete who suddenly are injured or are too old to play then the position is gone.
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-   “When I have some extra money, I’ll give it.” The problem was there was never any extra money.

-  Always encourage to work with people smarter than we were and to bring people together to work as a team. (synergy of professional specialties)


-  “Give and you shall receive.”




-         “To be truly rich, we need to be able to give as well as to receive.”
-         “To receive money, you had to give money. Giving money is the secret to most great wealthy families.”
-         “The better you are at communicating, negotiating, and handling your fear of rejection, the easier life is.”

Chapter 7: Overcoming Obstacles
-         The primary difference between a rich person and a poor person is how they manage fear.”
-         There are five main reasons why financially literate people may still not develop abundant asset columns that could produce a large cash flow. Those are:
1.       Fear
2.       Cynicism
3.       Laziness
4.       Bad Habits
5.       Arrogance
-          “ I have never met anyone who really likes losing money. And in all my years, I have never met a rich person who has never lost money. But I have met a lot of poor people who have never lost a dime -- investing, that is.”
-          “For most people, the reason they don’t win financially is because the pain of losing money is far greater than the joy of being rich.”
-          “If you hate risk and worry, start early.”
-          “What I like best is the Texas attitude. They’re proud when they win, and they brag when they lose. Texans have a saying ‘If you’re going to go broke, go big. You don’t want to admit you went broke over a duplex.’ ” – Rich Dad
-          “Failure inspires winners. Failure defeats losers.”
-           Winning means being unafraid to lose.” – Fran Tarkenston
-         “I always tried to turn every disaster into an opportunity.” – John D Rockefeller
-         “We’re all heroes at something, and coward at something else.”
-         Cynics criticize, Winners analyze.
-         Often in life, there are people who are too busy to take care of their wealth and there are people too busy to take care of their health. The cause is the same. They are busy and they stay busy as a way of avoiding something they do not want to face. If they aren’t busy at work or with the kids, they’re often busy watching TV, fishing, or shopping. Yet deep down they know they are avoiding something important. That’s the most common form of laziness: laziness by staying busy.
-         How do you beat laziness? The answer is a little greed. So whenever you find yourself avoiding something you know you should be doing, then the only thing to ask yourself is, WII-FM (What’s in it for me?). Be a little greedy. It’s the best cure for laziness. Too much greed, however, as anything in excess can be, is not good.
-         “Guilt is worse than greed, for guilt robs the body of its soul.” – Rich Dad
-         “Do what you feel in your heart to be right – for you’ll be criticized anyway. You’ll be damned if you do, and damned if you don’t.” – Eleanor Roosevelt
Chapter 8: Getting Started         
-         “There is gold everywhere. Most people are not trained to see it.”
-         10 steps as a process to develop your God-given powers, powers over which only you have control:
1.       Find a reason greater than reality: the power of spirit
2.       Make daily choices: the power of choice
3.       Choose friends carefully: the power of association
4.       Master a formula and then learn a new one: the power of learning quickly
5.       Pay yourself first: the power of self-discipline
6.       Pay your brokers well: the power of good advice
7.       Be an Indian giver: the power of getting something for nothing
8.      Use assets to buy luxuries: the power of focus
9.       Choose heroes: the power of myths
10.   Teach and you shall receive: the power of giving

For more lesson, visit: richdad.com